I'm on the outskirts of the sewing communities on Instagram and YouTube (which overlap significantly). I find both of them less-than-great for that community feel as well so I mostly watch/read/lurk, and I hoped to get/create something better over on the Pillowfort sewing comm that was linked above (I'm spinnerlynne over there) but I don't seem to like posting enough to make it happen. :P

I'll keep trying to make myself comfortable both on DW and PF over the next few months but I'm not a productive sewist and my job eats most of my interact-with-humans energy so we'll see if that works out!